[fairchild]

I think the way it's working now is fine for my needs. I have both audio and subtitles set to: eng,spa,esp

Then I have it set to Only Forced Subs and Only with matching language. If I want to choose a different sub, for instance if I want to actually see full subs, I can just select it from the subtitle menu. This is as close to how it works on a set-top blu-ray player. If you want to see full subs you select it on the player, etc.